Weddings, Anniversary, and A Marriage You'd Actually Want

So we went to a wedding this weekend in Greenville and got to see some good friends from college who told us that when they thought about it..."you guys really make the wedding rounds!" I knew we'd been to a lot, especially after we got married, but when I wrote it down, it's crazy ridiculous how many we've been to since we started "officially" dating in Feb. 2010.

Aaron and I have been to 20 weddings together (not counting our own) from July 2010-October 2012! (and I may have forgotten some..?)

1. justin and kai gibbons
2. mandy and jared rypkema
3. megan and moose saville
4. chris and english cousins
5. peg and josh timm
6. keven and april frederick
7. felicia and tommy preston-pic3
8. chris and stephanie ramaglia-pic 2
9. amber and patrick martin-pic1
10. lauren and mikey mcfadden
11. meredyth and jon merkling
12. aaron and christina cole
13. callie and jeff hsiang
14. josh and brittany cox
15. galen and jill mcaneney
16. kate and josh deese
17. steven and jess metts
18. matt and bekah nevala
19. katie and david gilson
20. mike and stephanie norris

Coming up...

1. emily and max (jordon)-Nov. 10
2. madeline and kevin (kimbrough)-Jan. 19
3. lauren and bailey (bailey)-TBA?

 So since I was M.I.A. for 3.5 months from the blog due to my cilnical, I never posted on our anniversary. Aaaand since we're on the topic...

Wedding day-August 13, 2011

• It was awesome! We went to Savannah, GA Friday night through Sunday (Aug. 10-12) and stayed at the President's Quarters Inn (thanks to Living Social) and we even got the room we wanted! 
• It rained most of the time but we went out Saturday morning to get massages (thank you again living social), and it let up Saturday night so we didn't get soaked when we visited The Lady and Sons, Paula Deen's Savannah restaurant. Neither Aaron, nor I were particularly impressed with the food, but perhaps we ordered the wrong thing. The place was booming with business and everyone else seemed to love the food, so we're not blacklisting it yet :)
• After dinner we walked by the riverfront and found a little bar that my clinical instructor told me had excellent margaritas, and she was indeed correct; they were yummy.
• Sunday morning we took another short walk through town visiting the square where Forrest Gump was filmed (of course, it's my favorite movie!) and to Forsyth Park to admire the fountain and greenery.
• Monday (our actual anniversary-August 13) we followed with tradition and ate the cake topper from our wedding. Aaron thought it tasted great, but I thought it smelled funny and therefore decided before it hit my tongue that it was gross...and I was right.   
• Since our wedding, Aaron and I have learned a few things:
• I've seen Aaron's love towards me, especially when I don't deserve it, and it points me to Christ and His love for me.
• We've learned to repent faster and actually mean it. We're both quick to say "sorry" for something, whether we've actually repented of it or not, just because it's uncomfortable not to, but God has been growing us in taking time apart to think about the Gospel and how we've been forgiven and let that fuel our reconciliation.
• He's learned that I have a lot of hair and it sheds everywhere and I've learned that he is far more "musically gaseous" than I could have ever imagined! 
• Communication is key: We have had a "Marriage Night" somewhat faithfully usually once a week since the second or third month in (at the recommendation of some friends), and have gone through different material and talked about how things are going in our marriage, how we can serve each other better, how we can pray for each other, etc. We've been going through the workbook paired with the sermon series below lately.
  

A Marriage You'd Actually Want

Following our first anniversary, our church started a sermon series/campaign called "A Marriage You'd Actually Want." A campaign is a sermon series where all lifegroups have material that pairs up with the sermons and discussion questions to follow. This series has been a wonderful tool that God is using to work in marriages in our church and in our city. You can check out the sermons from either the Devine street or Main street locations here. I recommend it whether you are single, married, widowed, or divorced. Check out a spoken word video about the series below:

Been a minute...

Hey friends!

It's been a hot minute since I've blogged (told ya that would happen). But now that I'm done with my last clinical (!!!!!!!!) I have more free time again! 

That's right, I finished my LAST clinical of PT school! bahhh!! A little bit about the clinical: 

• I was with Gentiva Home Health here in Columbia with an excellent clinical instructor (CI), Jill for 12 weeks. I had a lot of really sweet patients and a few that required a little extra dose of love and patience to treat, but overall it was a great experience. 
• I saw a good bit of neuro (people with strokes, Parkinson's disease, etc.) which was a major blessing because I didn't get much true neuro on my neuro/rehab clinical. 
• This rotation was so unique because we went into patients homes to evaluate and treat them. I really loved this aspect of it because we treated the patient more holistically than in other settings--we get the whole picture and are responsible for more than just their PT needs. 
• We were finished with all of our patients usually by 2:30 or so which was awesome; the only bummer was the PAPERWORK! Home Health has the most paperwork by far of any setting; it was kinda like going to school and then bringing home your homework. woo! It was rough, but the up side is, I learned how to document things in the best way and I am familiar with all the home health paperwork should I ever choose to practice in this setting.

 So what now?

• A#1 priority is preparing for defending my research on Nov. 2--in editing process with my research adviser now--this is my last item to complete the DPT program!
• Job hunting: we have a job fair with lots of different companies next Monday. Two of my top picks will be there, so I'm hoping to make an impression! My CI used to work with one of them and said she'd put in a good word for me :-D 
• Graduation is December 17th.
• January 30 is the National Physical Therapy Exam or the BOARDS. I have to take this to get my license before I can start practicing. 
• Aaron and I are traveling to a friends wedding in Jackson, MS the weekend of Nov. 10. After the wedding, we're heading to Nawlin's! I'm so stoked...I've never been and I've always wanted to! On the way back, we're stopping to stay the night in Birmingham, AL with two friends from Cola who moved not too long ago! Can't wait!

California: A whirlwind week!

I'll post more on each day individually with stories, etc. but I wanted to give a little preview of our trip out west! We went the week of the 4th and were southern California, mostly San Diego and LA areas. We took over 600 pictures and 10 videos, visited 3 zoos, 2 theme parks, met up with 6 relatives (in 3 cities), and ate wayyy too much :)

A run down of the week:

Saturday: Leave Cola 10ish, fly out of ATL around 4pm EST,stop in Denver for a bite to eat and pictures of the unfortunate wildfires from the air (right) and (after marveling at the all the desert landscape between) arrive in San Diego around 6pm Pacific Time. Got our very RED Ford Focus rental care and make our way to Valley Center (~ 1 hr) where Aaron's Aunt Anne & Uncle Pete live atop their very own mountain.

Sunday: Wake up to clouds in the valley below the family's mountain...so beautiful! Head to church, and then to Oceanside beach to see the Pacific Ocean (a first for me)! We met up with Aaron's dad who was able to find a military hop to the West Coast and ate fish & chips on the boardwalk at a place that Aaron's cousin Joshua used to work. Uncle Pete, Aaron, & I went exploring out on the jettis and saw over a dozen starfish clinging to the sides in between crashing waves! We made it back from the beach just in time to see the sun set over the mountains...hands down, the most breathtaking sunset I've ever seen!

Monday: Aaron, his dad, and I tackle the San Diego Wild Safari Park (think African savanna) and saw all kinds of cool animals some of which we were familiar with and many of which we were not! My favorite part of that day was getting to take a tour (on a tram) of the open green hills with the animals scattered about--I felt like I was in Africa--it was so cool.

Tuesday: Needing some time to ourselves, Aaron & I drove up to Los Angeles (well, Hollywood) to see all the uber-touristy stuff there. Our (super-cheap-deal) hotel was on Sunset Blvd. so we walked a block or 2 to In-and-Out burger for lunch (a California must, I hear), and then another block or two up to Hollywood Blvd. We looked at the Hollywood Walk of Fame for a bit, trying to be "selective" with our pictures of stars (there are so many I wanted to photograph--including Billy Graham--who knew?), and then went over to Grauman's Chinese Theater, where the stars (beginning as early as the 1930s) have left their feet and hand prints in the sidewalk. By the way, Judy Garland had really tiny feet!
Wanting to hit all the major tourist attractions in 1 night, we hopped a tour of Beverly Hills and stars homes. It went pretty fast, and it has been hard to remember who they said lived where, haha, but we did get lots of pictures of pretty and famous homes. The best part, of course, was getting a shot of the Hollywood sign. After the tour, we had dinner at a cool Sushi bar and marched our weary feet back to the Budget Inn for some shut-eye.

Wednesday: A friend in Santa Barbara recommended a Hollywood breakfast restaurant for us, so in hopes of seeing a few stars, we set out to The Griddle Cafe, just 13 blocks from our hotel on Sunset. There were probably 10 parties waiting to be seated when we got there, but we decided to stick it out, and we even got an outdoor seat! I got graham-cracker pancakes & French-pressed coffee--so cool (right) and Aaron had something like Nutella pancakes. We weren't able to finish them (and no desire to be diabetic by the end of the meal) so we took a doggie bag (which we then accidentally left in the car overnight). After leaving Hollywood, we did a quick drive through downtown LA which was completely deserted because it was the 4th. Aaron got to see the Staples Center where the LA Lakers play and we both pointed out the US Bank Tower, the tallest building in LA and the building that was blown up in Independence Day.

We then headed about an hour and a half south to Hemet, CA where Aaron's grandparents live in an awesome retirement community (having a little run-in with CHiPs-CA Hwy Patrol-along the way..he let us off with a warning!). We again met up with Aaron's dad also, and all of us enjoyed each other's company for the night, playing banagrams and talking about family history.  I found this gem of Aaron's great-grandparents (his dad's dad's parents)...now, I'm sure that Grammie was a lovely woman, but she looks like Aaron wearing a wig and a dress in this photo below! What a resemblance!

Thursday: Thursday was quite the day. We left  Hemet and drove for ~3 hours south back to San Diego to see their world-famous Zoo! After more realy cool animals and an epic polar bear fight, we headed out to La Jolla Cove to eat dinner at a restaurant that Aaron read about once with a great view. This seemed like a pretty high-end place and we arrived just in time to get a good seat at the edge of the balcony. The view of the cove was beyond stunning (below, left).
 On the right is a pic of the right side of the cove...I had to make both of these small, but click and check them out because this view was fantastic. I highly recommend going there.

After the drive, the Zoo, and the Cove, we hit Seaworld to catch a glimpse of Shamu doin' his thing and maybe a dolphin or two. We saw this dolphin "shaking hands" with a few of the trainers and patrons :) After the Artic animals, we called it a day and went back to Valley Center to rest up.

Friday: 5:30am-leave for Disneyland in Anaheim (~1.5 hrs away); 8-11:30ish, do Disneyland rides and stuff with Aunt Anne and Uncle Pete...Space Mountain was pretty scary but so fun!

Noon-3 sleep outside at the pool until check-in at the hotel

3-5:30ish: nap in the hotel room; we were tired!!

6:30-7:00?-Disney parade complete with every princess there ever was and some that I didn't recognize!

8:00-8:30?-Spectacular lights show on water with almost every Disney character you could imagine!

Then bed.


Saturday: California Adventure Park!!!! This is a separate park in Disneyland that Aaron's cousin Cheri was able to get us tickets and fast passes for since she is a Disney employee. It was a very fun but exhausting day. Aaron and I actually took a 2 hour nap/rest break at a lunch table while Anne, Pete, and Cheri shopped. Cars Land is BRAND spankin' new and is modeled after Radiator Springs the town from the movie Cars. It was a ton of fun and you should definitely go if you get the chance.


In the evening we hit a phenomenal show of Aladdin (a 1 hr version of the movie--my favorite Disney movie) and then the "Mad Hatter's Tea Party" a rock type show loosely based on the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland. The grand finale to our trip was a show called "A World of Color", another lights show on water at Paradise Pier, a boardwalk-type area of CA Adventure. Words can't describe how beautiful it was...or how glad we were to be able to go home. It was a packed-full-of-fun trip, but we were completely wiped after going hard for 3 days in a row.

Sunday: Saturday night we drove back to Valley Center and were able to sleep in Sunday morning til 10ish. We did a quickie drive through downtown San Diego on our way to the airport and then hopped on a plane around 3pm California time. Because of a light connecting flight and bad weather, we didn't get into Atlanta til after 1, got our bags and got to our car around 2 and got home around 5 because we stopped for dinner and then got turned around on the interstates. Needless to say, we slept most of Monday and are adjusting back to life on the east coast. :)

DPT Family

• About two weeks ago was one heck of a week for our class of 18 PT students, but a very good one! We:
• had our last class...ever.
• took our last final exam...ever.
• took our comprehensive exam (a recall of 3 years of info, basically) and 100% passed!
• celebrated that twice in one day...lunch at Pawley's Front Porch (the most amazing burger you've ever had) and dinner at Mellow Mushroom and
• took a Board Review class to get an idea of how to prepare for studying for boards

• So all in all, we finished the academic portion of our 3.5 year program!!! We are all thrilled to have the rest of the summer off to relax and finish research until we begin our final clinical rotations July 30 in various places and settings. Some are doing a second/specialized orthopedic rotation, some are doing pediatrics, and 3 or 4 of us are doing home health. Clinical ends mid-October and we graduate December 13! The end is in sight!!! 
• Here's a pic of our class (minus Aaron & Christina, Jess, and Forest) after comps at Pawley's :)
 
• Honestly, I'm a little sad our time together is almost at an end! I've lived life next to these 17 other people for the last 3 years! We've seen the good, bad, and ugly of each other! We've 
• celebrated 4 weddings (and 3 more to come)
• mourned the loss of loved ones
• studied God's Word & prayed together
• welcomed a baby girl into the world
• laughed at stupid YouTube videos
• presented I don't even know how many case studies
• and celebrated the end of nearly every semester like champs! Oh that reminds me! 
• Two intramural sports championships (with some help from other classes)! 
• And all 18 of us have made it through with no hold-ups!
• It's been a real honor and privilege to work with these 17 people who I call DPT family! :)

Moving Forward into Summer!

Couple new things happening around the Hassell Castle as we move forward into summer:

• Frisbee-We are playing ultimate frisbee in the Columbia Ultimate Disc Association Summer League! This is the third summer Aaron's played and he convinced me to sign up this year. Our 2nd game is tonight and I'm pumped. Typically when I'm playing with a new group of people, I am very self-conscious about my playing and get real focused on myself and how bad I suck. Bad move. I'm learning to focus more on just having fun and improving my game and not getting offended when someone gives me a tip. That kinda leads into the next thing...
• Humility-We started a new series at Midtown last night on humility. The biggest and hardest thing I learned from the first sermon was that there are two kinds of pride. The first is what I normally think of as pride...the "I'm so excellent, I don't need God" kinda attitude. But the second is the polar opposite...having the constant mindset of "I am not excellent in any way" and staying focused on how "not excellent" we are. We may think we need special treatment because of how "not excellent" we are. I have a harder time explaining and recognizing this type of pride, but I know that it lives in my heart. The solution to killing pride isn't "just be more humble," but being humbled by the fact that Jesus humbled Himself and died for my pride. I genuinely desire to grow in humility and am looking forward to the rest of this series :) From the video below, Aaron will benefit from it too, lol. This is from an "interview" I did with him on a road trip about 2 years ago. Sorry it's sideways!

• Reunion-I traveled down to Charleston last Friday to meet up for dinner with my best friends from college. April will be moving overseas soon, so we took advantage of the opportunity to meet up so we could send her off! Since we were all together, Mer's sister threw her a baby shower the same weekend; I was so thrilled so many of us were able to make it, but we missed 3 of our girls. So much is changing with all of us so quickly between jobs, grad school, family, marriage, babies, and overseas missions, it's hard to keep up, but we try to plan as far in advance as we can to make time to visit at least once a year. 
• If you know me and are reading this blog, you probably know these girls, or  ARE one of them, but here's the roster: back (L-R): Peg, Madeline, Meredyth, Amber M. (doing a Slovak "2" bc she, hubby Patrick, and baby Samuel (exp. 7/14/12) will be moving to Bratislava soon!), front: me, Amber W., April, Jenna
• April's moving to Asia so that's what the pose is about ;-P

  
More to come on PT school!

Harbison State Forest

Last Saturday Aaron and I ventured out to Harbison State Forest for a little hiking. We saw 2 deer, some cool plant life, and a little baby birdie with a lot to say. Enjoy the pics below!

 This one was much less skiddish and let us take a few pics.

 The one in the back heard or saw us and was hopping around trying to warn the other. Finally got a good shot of both of em. They were so close to us!!!

 so green!!

 cool hollowed out tree

 I heard this bird when we were on the trail and took a few minutes to find him; don't let him fool ya, even though he's so little, he is LOUD!!

 Camelbak to scale the size of the bird...he was soooo tiny!

It took a lot for Aaron to convince me the black ones were okay to eat, but they were good and we didn't get sick, thankfully :)

 Pretty yellow flowers that were scattered all along the way.

 Some baby pine trees we saw...they look so funny to me. I guess it's the alfalfa type bunch of needles on the top that's weird.

 Mushroom

Whole trail took about 2 hours (3.5 miles) and was beautiful. We'll definitely be heading out there again soon!

Porch Updates

Updated pics of the porch below...

The finished porch table/firewood stand. The glass jar the flowers (fake white hydrangea..my fave) in fell over during a storm last week :/ but luckily glass jars are easy to come by!

"Total view" of the porch/candle holder and our hanging porch lights (loooove these). The table at the end is my "desk" when I work/study from home :) And at the end, the (dead) hanging plant that I'm attempting to revive after a few weeks of neglect. thank goodness for miracle grow!

oooh, obligatory artsy pic.

Tree right in front of our porch.

And a panoramic view of our very long porch. To the left there is a bridge that leads toward the clubhouse and a small dock that's on the lake. Good place to go chill.